Freeloading mom and 15-year-old son stay for free at cousin's London apartment, then leave with all her food and without saying thank you, leading cousin to refuse future requests: ‘[Here's] a list of nearby hotels’

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
Aug 26, 2025 9:00 AM EDT

When someone is gracious enough to allow you to stay in their home for free, the least you can do is cover (or at least offer) other expenses. 

For example, whenever my sister comes to town, my husband and I welcome her into our home and let her sleep in the guest room. It's a great setup; she doesn't have to pay for Airbnb, and in return, she usually buys us dinner and even makes sure that our fridge is full of groceries before she leaves. While it's not a requirement (even though it should be, if you ask me), it is definitely the right thing to do.

Unfortunately, not everyone thinks so, especially not the woman in the story below. She has no problem taking over her cousin's apartment every time she visits London, and leaving without so much as a 'Thank you' for the free accommodation. She even emptied her cousin's fridge and took her half-eaten cereal box with her. Talk about entitlement…

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  • The next time this family member asked to stay at her cousin's apartment, the cousin refused. But that didn't stop the family drama from ensuing, so scroll down to read the full tale.

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    Freeloading family expect a free vacation

    I live in London and have family, specifically my cousins, who expect free accommodation to visit.
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    Before my fiancé moved in, I'd cave and stay at his place for a couple of days and let them have my apartment.
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    We enjoyed being together at his for the whole weekend, so it didn't feel like a huge inconvenience, but he told me I should be firmer with them.
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    The last time, it was my cousin and her 15 year old son. The night they arrived I paid for takeout to be delivered for dinner.
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    No real thank you, and the next day half the leftovers had been eaten. I ate the other half and got evil looks from my cousin who hissed "I was planning to have that for lunch!"
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    We went out for dinner on their last night. When the bill came, I pushed it towards my cousin, thinking she might be a good sport and cover it.
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    Nope! Out came the iPhone calculator to add up everything she and her son had, and that's exactly what she paid.
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    I got the rest... plus the entire service charge!
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    I'd also bought some supplies in advance thinking I could use whatever's leftover the following week. Nope! They took them all home with them!
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    Half eaten bags of crisps (chips), bananas that probably bruised in their bags, half a bottle of milk, open packets of cookies, muffins, pastries, half empty boxes of breakfast cereal.
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    After my fiancé moved in my cousin messaged us asking to stay again. As it's a one bedroom apartment, I said we have neither the space nor fiancé's place to stay anymore.
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    She came up with an elaborate plan of sleeping on the sofa and moving all my furniture out the way to fit an airbed for her son in the living room.
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    My fiancé replied with a list of nearby hotels.
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    My sister came to visit earlier this summer but her Airbnb fell through last minute, so I offered the sofa for the weekend.
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    She was a delight to have around, bought me breakfast and left some beautiful flowers in a vase and a thank you card when she left.
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    A few days later, a message landed from my cousin asking if she and her kid could stay given I'd let my sister.
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    My fiancé replied with a list of nearby hotels.
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    Cousin asked if she could stay on the sofa if it's just her and she left the kid at home.
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    Guess what fiancé replied with? You're a winner if you guessed the same list of hotels.
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    I wish I was as firm as him sometimes!
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